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5 Stars A Wonderful Guide
Sensitive and compassionate. . .Tammy Nelson has written a wonderful guide for couples who wish to deepen their erotic connection or rekindle their intimacy.

5 Stars Change your life forever!
Tammy Nelson has created a space within her chapters where everyone, young and old, can feel comfortable in their own skin…..where they can enjoy intimacy without any feelings of guilt, incompetence or embarrassment. She has explained in full detail how to change our relationships, beginning with the most primal and private of all human needs…..

……and, she makes it a whole lot of fun!!

I highly recommend Tammy Nelson’s book to all my friends, colleagues and clients alike!

Melanie Barnum, Certified Hypnotist and Intuitive Counselor

5 Stars An excellent guide
Tammy Nelson’s book provides a clear strategy in a book category that is often notable for vague approaches. The text is friendly, well-written, and full of an infectious enthusiasm that is bound to inspire even a skeptical reader. Our culture’s media messages are so conflicted–it is refreshing to read a book where the goal is to resolve conflicts, at least in the safety of our intimate relationships.

5 Stars Getting the information you want!
This book is unlike most other self-help books where they describe the problem, how the problem gets worse and usually a chapter (if you’re lucky) on what to do about the problem.

Tammy Nelson fills her book with exercises and action plans in each chapter from start to finish! If you are a couple wanting to “get the sex you want” and are looking for behavior changes, than this is the book for you.

I highly recommend this book.

5 Stars An open-hearted, generous book for couples
Here is a book I’ll recommend to any couple who feels ready to experience a more loving and passionate sexual relationship. Tammy Nelson is an Imago therapist and teacher with two decades of clinical practice. Her skills shine forth not only in the information she offers here, but also in the helpful way the book is organized, with step by step techniques for helping couples recharge their relationships in a variety of situations.

Topics include help for stale-mated partners who “keep score” and for those who “fake it.” She offers exercises to deal with the fear, anxiety, control, anger, and resentment that too many couples take to bed with them, and shows ways to express love, trust, appreciation, sensuality, and lusty desire. Other topics include explicit guidance for sexual intimacy that range from massage and genital stimulation to creating sexual rituals. The book concludes with a section on tolerating ecstasy and joy–a problem many people have in our fast-track culture.

If you are a therapist who works with couples–you’ll find this book a wonderful resource for you as well as your clients. It spans the divide between couple therapy and sex therapy in a way that guides and educates in a straightforward, collegial manner.

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